My ex husband who is currently in rehab and had been doing great may have relapsed. His phone privileges are revoked and I don't know the details. I hope I'm just being paranoid. We were going to give ourselves another chance at our marriage cause he's been doing so well. I can't get the thought out of my head that he may of relapsed and I don't think I can handle that. I understand it's a disease. I understand this can happen and I have no control over it. I know I shouldn't be assuming. I understand co-dependency. Doesn't make it any easier. I'm still struggling with it very badly can't reach my therapist and I just can't seem to relax.
2014-12-08 04:26:55
You should not be jumping to conclusions. This is not about you it is about him. He is going through a process and it may have included being separated from the outside influences of all kind. You must work on your fears and anxieties while he is doing his work. Focus on healing yourself and the rest of your family. Consider discussing long term Naltrexone therapy with him if his addiction is to opiates or alcohol. It has been proven to be very effective to minimize physical cravings and dramatically cut the rate of relapse. The best delivery method is the Vivitrol monthly injection which is usually covered be insurance. Best thing for you is to relax and take care of yourself. Good luck.
2014-12-08 04:27:29
