My boyfriend works 12hour shifts in Indiana I'm in Illinois and I just feel so lonely. I feel like I'm going through everything by myself . we sometimes argue because he doesnt always answer the phone but i know he's tired but i just want to get stuff off my chest. I cry every night because of my family. They don't want to give me a baby shower because I am high risk . I feel that it's unfair because I'm 21 weeks and 4 days and every doctors appointment or ultrasound I've had they said my daughter is doing just fine. They also say things like oh we don't want to by anything because what if the baby dies or is a still born or is really sick. I just want to know am I being unfair for sometimes arguing with him ? Because he's working so we can have our own house and be independent. PLEASE COMMENT YOUR FEEDBACK! THANKS IN ADVANCE
2014-11-06 06:21:58
Ummmm no.....you're not being unreasonable at all. First with your family....I'd tell them to bite me. I cannot believe They are saying those things to You. I'd flat out tell them that if they can't be encouraging and optimistic then they don't have to be part of mine or my babies life. Tell them they are being extremely cruel and hurtful. As for your boyfriend....I'm in the same position. My boyfriend lives in another state for the time being but he flies in for all the appointments and is still really involved even though he works 12 hours 5 days a week and is in school fulltime. I wouldn't get upset that he's working a lot to buy you a house....but I'd talk to him and explain how alone you feel and just ask him if he can try and be more attentive. It can be done so I'd try and just talk openly to him about jt.
2014-11-06 06:22:28
