I have a dilemma with my bf. He has two other kids with two other ladies so here's my beef with it. His first is 10 years old and he has another 2 year old that he never gets to see so she's pretty much out of the picture. I have a problem with constantly hearing about his son. He hasn't seen or heard from him in 3 years because the mom took off and changed her number so he has no idea where they are. I have to always hear about him complaining about paying child support and his son this and his son that and barely pays attention or has any focus on the child that I'm carrying. I feel like he will never really care for this child like he does his son. I have no problem with a man stepping up to take care of his child even if he never gets to see him against his choice. I feel like he doesn't give one millionth of a crap about this child as he does his son. Am I overreacting? Should I say something again? Last time it just ended up in a big fight. I don't know ow what to do. I need him to be here for me mind and body and I feel like he doesn't care because he wants his son...
2014-11-06 06:40:03
My bf is exactly the same. Has a daughter of 6 who he never sees because of the mother. He seems more interested in her rather than paying attention to the baby I'm carrying. You try explaining but they don't understand. Im on the sane boat.. Just wait and see if things change when the baby's here
2014-11-06 06:40:34
