In law problems

I was married last year and am currently 32 weeks pregnant. Short story my in laws were late to our wedding then went back out to the field to finish planting and missed the meal First dance and all of the speeches. I was very bitter about this for months. They never even apologized for us waiting on them for the wedding! Then they found out we were pregnant earlier this year and didn't act excited. They were like "oh okay congrats..." my mom was so excited! It was easter time and so i did easter baskets with eggs that spelt out grandparents! It was cute! I didnt think a lot into it as I was really sick. But both of my husbands parents have been off work for months due to surgeries on their shoulders. They never stop over or check to see how we are and rarely call. They do not know our sons name! They live less than 10 miles away! We have to go visit to see them. And They are not old by any means. Im so used to my mom and brothers calling almost everyday and they help me all the time. His parents have never offered to help and its known how sick I havr been my whole pregnancy. I want my son to have grandparents who are active in his life. I know how it is when your grandparents arent very involved and it *****! at this point I dont want them near him... I dont want him to depend on them coming to things and not being there. Thats how they were with my husband and his siblings. Its so frustrating! i dont know what to do anymore!

2014-11-11 11:57:32

David